A lot of my sex articles get auto-tagged as Erotica, which I usually erase — but that doesn’t help. Auto-tagging as Erotica is basically the kiss of death. I’ve never had anything auto-tagged in Erotica get curated, even when I delete the tag.

Strangely, though, some of my most explicit (well, for me) pieces have gotten curated, like my piece on shame around penetration and thrusting. That was pretty graphic, but it got curated. And some of my BEST, researched, deeply detailed pieces on feminism, mental health, and other non-sex subjects do NOT get curated. It’s insane. I cannot figure it out.