AGREED. It is absolutely homophobic, all this pedophile shit. Here's the thing: When it's an older man with a younger woman, everyone is giving high fives. Even if she's 18 and he's in his 40s, which honestly makes me cringe a little. But no, in western culture, he's a stud, and everything is as it should be.
If she's older and he's younger, she's a cougar (predation implied), she must be working really hard to keep her man, how did she trick him into a relationship when he could have a 20-year-old, etc.
If it's two women, like Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor, there's suspicion and vague implications that something's off and "gross" about it.
And if it's two MEN - the older man is a pervert or a pedophile.
No. It's all ageism, sexism, and homophobia, straight up.