And this is one of the most foundational issues. They’re asking us to marry blatant misogynists when we’re living in a world where ALL of us have been programmed with misogyny, and because men never have to experience it, they are the least likely to examine it and stop demonstrating it. Even liberal men do this. In other words, we have enough problems with the liberal men we marry and they want us to go all in with the men who DO know they are misogynists and who are deeply invested in their misogyny? Yikes.