Any man who chooses to use that label, a label that every woman knows is associated with radical ideology and rampant misogyny, a label that is proudly coveted by men who have mass murdered women with weapons like vehicles, machetes, and automatic rifles, is NOT nice. Any man who chooses to speak about his sexual needs using this term, a term that implies that women owe them sex, is NOT nice.

If there are nice men out there who want to talk about sexual frustration, PICK ANOTHER LABEL.