But with all due respect, why do you feel the need to share your assessment that she was “once a rather attractive woman”? It’s unlikely you will ever face any criticism about aging. You are very blessed to have that privilege as a man. Does your unfavorable opinion about an aging woman really have to be publicly shared? There’s a severe power imbalance here and you could easily help in evening that out by simply saying, “Yeah, she can do whatever she wants.”