Cosette Ubik I think that is sometimes true, but I actually know a ton of men — GOOD men — who are in this situation and who are coming face-to-face with their partners’ sexual shame and not realizing it. And for the few who do get it, they don’t know what to do about it. It’s such a systemic problem with tentacles that reach everywhere. We’ve all got a lot of unraveling to do.

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