"Do not stop to point fingers." That is such an interesting one for me. I had several relationships like this in my early years - not to this extent, of course, but severe gaslighting. And some of it in my family of origin, as well.

There's a part of me these days in which I feel like it's important for me to lay blame at the correct people's feet. I know that probably sounds immature and ridiculous, but I guess I'm trying to say that I'm trying to heal from believing that I'm crazy and wrong and broken. That I'm not the ONLY one at fault.

However...I'm not entirely sure this method is working. Because ultimately, even if I decide that this or that is someone else's fault...who cares? Now what? Most of the time, it's not something I'm going to have a conversation about. So...

Anyways, that line really struck me. Something to think about.