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Girls Really Do Just Wanna Have Fun (If You Know What I Mean…)
But we can’t when it’s not safe to do so
We’d be so much sluttier if men were honest about their intentions. We’d love to jump into bed if we could count on truthful communication about wants, needs, and what’s actually on his mind. If we didn’t have to navigate the landmines of lovebombing and lies. If we knew he probably did not have a girlfriend or wife that he didn’t bother telling us about, or absolutely has zero interest in having a relationship.
That’s right, we’d be slutty to the point of occasional (or not-so-occasional) one night stands if conditions were safer and more honest. If we didn’t have to deal with both his and society’s judgment about our morality once the sun comes up the next morning. If we didn’t have to worry that our new one-time lover might kill or rape us. If we lived in a culture where it would be reasonable to assume that taking a chance on a new partner just for one ride would be worth it.
Too often it isn’t. Which leads me to remind you that we’d be sluttier if being slutty meant having way more orgasms. We dream of going tumbling into bed with men who know where the clitoris is (the outside and the inside) and who know what to do with it. Sex would be so much more fun if men took the time to learn about how women’s bodies work…
