Good for you! That’s awesome. I used to think I had to be all about BJs because that seemed to be what my partners wanted, but I started pulling back on them, as well, and only giving them when I really, genuinely wanted to. There are oral maneuvers that I love to perform on a man, but not necessarily the traditional until-you-come BJs. It was really nice to let go of feeling like I HAD to perform in that way. And my partner seemed totally fine with the deal.