Good heavens. I am a woman and I couldn't have written this better. Honestly, I think a lot of men will be far more likely to listen to another man than to us. And for once, I can read an article like this and say you nailed every goddamn thing. (Thank you for mentioning the chore gap!!!!!)

The foreplay thing was perfect, too. I want to see another word evolve for that because foreplay IS sex and I feel like this term perpetuates the idea that men are supposed to throw a bone to their lovers before getting to the "good stuff" (the guy's orgasm). It is SOOOOO much more than that. I'm so glad you talked about that.

Bravo. I love seeing your confidence shine in this!