Great points, of course, and high five!

Just so you know, I am not an editor of Sexography. I write the column Howl, but that's it. It was created by Julia Beaudett and Ben Davis and Joe is an editor there.

I think I might have missed where Medium pointed out that you can't say "vagina" in the title...? I have gotten curated many times using the word vagina, so I'd be surprised if that was an issue. I'd suggest maybe contact Medium support to make sure. Medium is actually very sex positive in general and I have never felt censored here.