I am so sorry to hear this, but I think it’s a beautiful tribute to your relationship. Not that I believe we have to be martyrs for one another, but I also believe we are here to care for one another, to some extent, even when it comes unexpectedly. I don’t say this much, because I think it comes with a lot of religious baggage, but if you can receive it without that: bless you. And what a blessing you are to your wife. ❤