I could never ask a guy that. I mean, if he asked, I’d tell him, but I would not want him to think of my preferences for his body over his own. I didn’t mind asking my partners if they wanted me to dress a certain way for dates or a sexy nights in, and I loved to do what they asked — but I did not appreciate being told all the time what I should wax or what I should weigh. That is over the line for me.