I definitely think it’s great to build skills, but I don’t like the narrative that we push that that’s ESSENTIAL to being a good lover because it does such a disservice to people who haven’t had sex yet or who aren’t experienced and I feel like it puts unfair pressure on them to push ahead into sexual experiences they might not really want just to be able to obtain that “good lover” status.

Plus, I have friends who have slept with guys who are close to three digits, as far as their “number” goes, and most of them claimed that those guys were worse in bed than the guys who’d slept with less than 10 people.

And as with all things…none of this really matters because it’s all generalization! LOL. So you know…it’s all about the individuals and their particular experiences.

xoxo