I do think there is luck or chance or something involved. But it’s funny that all the women I know who are in really solid relationships would NEVER say that — they all say that they went out and did hard work to find the right partner and it came together because of effort and determination.

And therefore, I should be able to accomplish the same thing. But I don’t see that I’ve ever done anything different and so I can’t help but think there is luck/chance involved.