I don’t get it, either. I really want numbers here — how many people have they actually asked? I mean, it’s entirely possible to get dozens of nos — I’ve never gotten a yes, though I’ve given many! LOL. I think everyone’s experience is just SO different and unique — some people will get asked out, some people won’t, some people will get lots of yeses, some people will get none… But in today’s world, I find it hard to believe that someone couldn’t get on Tinder and find a casual sex opportunity if they are feeling such a monumental need. It’s out there! But I suspect they want a full package experience, and that’s not something so easily obtainable for anyone. That’s all about timing and chemistry and luck.