Y.L. Wolfe
Mar 5, 2022

--

I have had a few conversations with men about polyamory and exploring that idea. Most typically, when I ask about how we would talk about each other's partners and what's going on, they tell me that's not how polyamory works. There are no rules and you don't talk about the other people you're seeing or have any rules about that because if you have rules about it and have to talk about it and compromise, then that's either "attempted monogamy" or plain old control. I've been confused by this response, but am coming to feel that these are just men who want to fuck around without having any responsibility or accountability.

--

--

Y.L. Wolfe
Y.L. Wolfe

Written by Y.L. Wolfe

Adventuring, nesting, and raising hell in middle age. Welcome to my second act. | Substack: https://ylwolfe.substack.com | Email: hello@ylwolfe.com

Responses (2)