I have so much to say about this, but it'll have to wait until a little later. But wanted to say how much I can relate to this. I think it's really important that you pointed out low ENERGY vs. low SEXUAL energy. I am experiencing that, as well, and it takes down the sexual energy with it. But I think it's so important to make that distinction.
I also find it very frustrating, even as a single person. There are experiences I want to have and writing and photography I need to do that are hampered when my energy (sexual or general) is low.
I've been meaning to ask you when your b'day is! I'm not surprised you're a Scorpio! Love it!! Water signs unite! LOL.