I have to say that the one price of coming to this platform and writing about feminism and sex has been the same as yours. I have developed a deep distrust of men. I fear every comment that comes in from a man - unless it's from someone I know and trust. And 90% of the times they tell me how kind and pro-femme they are, I assume they just haven't yet been triggered enough to expose their inherent misogyny. Because 90% of the time, it's there and comes out just when I start to trust them...

It breaks my heart because part of the reason I came here was to heal from my abusive past with men. And things have only become even more abusive.

But I'm too fiesty now to just shut up and hide myself away. I'll take the hits so long as I can keep speaking.