I once had a guy pull back because I was “too passionate.” I said, “I thought you said you liked that.” He said, “In the bedroom, yeah, but everywhere else, it’s just exhausting.” LOL. Hurt at the time, but I’ve noticed that a lot — people sometimes want something in a certain area of the relationship but nowhere else, which isn’t realistic. A person is who they are in all aspects of the relationship.

Anyways…yes on all of this!