I totally get this. And you know me — that’s important to me, too. I have yet to find a balance with it. (As you know, my current trend is jumping into bed, ha ha.)

The thing is…I feel like I’d want to move into sexual territory much, much faster if I was just left alone about it. No pressure. The more someone pressures me, the slower I need to go. Though as I’m sitting here thinking about this, I think that’s not about me needing to slow down, but about my body telling me that a person who is pushing me is not the right person, at all. And slowing down (or jumping into bed) isn’t going to change that. Hmmm….