I was nervous to share my story on this for the very reasons you outlined — that feeling that it’s opening a door to give all men permission to argue against condom use, when really, that needs to be an agreement between those engaging in sex together based on their own needs and desires. The way you pointed that out and laid out what really needs to change was brilliant. Thank you for including that.

Thank you for the shout-out, too. ❤

And damn, this was sexy. Nicely done!