I would love to know more about the orgasm gap as it is being demonstrated today. I definitely hear more and more (at least through Medium, LOL) about all the men who love giving pleasure so much. And yet, in my own life, I’ve only had ONE lover who truly cared about my pleasure. ONE.

And I see my single friends — all of whom are sexually vocal, strong women — reporting about a 50–60% chance of having an orgasm with a new lover. Why, I ask again and again, and they shrug and say the same thing every time: Some guys just don’t care.

I don’t know what to make of this. These are friends who live in different places all around the country, so it can’t be that selfish jerks are gravitating to one geographic area. Ha ha. It makes me want to run around collecting data.

Great piece, as always.