I wrote an essay about this a couple weeks ago about how older women should find younger men if they want to have a successful pregnancy — that was my way of pushing back against this refusal to acknowledge the decline of male fertility. ;)

(And thank you for your kindness and concern. Since my father went into hospice care in January, this kind of thing doesn’t hit as hard as it used to. My perspective on things has shifted a lot, as you can imagine.)