I’m not a mom, but I’ve been struggling financially for years in careers in education, nonprofit, and now writing. I would KILL to be able to afford updated glasses each year, to keep up with my housing expenses, to help out my sister who has a sick baby…

I have considered sex work for YEARS. My biggest hesitancy is trying to figure out how to do it where I have control. Meaning financial control. I don’t want to work for a company run by men who take a huge cut of the profits. And I don’t know how to look for how things work in that industry or how to pick the right venues…

Anyways…I fully support whatever decision you make — not that you need my support or ANYONE’S. You’re a kick-ass, independent woman. Maybe we’ll both become webcam girls in 2020. ;) Who knows.