I'm so sorry this happened to you - and it was SOOOO much creepier than what happened to me. I mean, I saw the video and ewwwwwwwwwwww. I would've freaked out. It freaked me out that my offender used my photo in his email to make an excuse to include a photo of his dick (which was flaccid, btw - I think he was maybe starting off gently? ugh). But using our face? Shit. And I don't know what's worse - had he privately messaged or that he put it on his TIMELINE and TAGGED YOU. I could just barf, honestly.
I'm glad to have you as an ally, though. Everything you brought up here is RIGHT ON, my dear. Love you. xoxo