Just a few points:

1: The very term “incel” is a statement that a man is entitled to sex. There’s no such thing as being involuntarily celibate unless you expect someone to have sex with you.

2: I highly encourage you to look at the more recent studies on hormones, biology, and evolution. These statements you have made about it being hardwired into the male brain to objectify women (and other such things) are false and have been proven so multiple times. I’ve written extensively on this matter.

3: Yes, I am tired of our culture centering men. You would feel the same if the tables were turned. But I said “alleged” because again, these articles seem to be saying that men aren’t getting enough sex…not that they are actually lonely. Which feels like a bait and switch. Hence, “alleged.” However, you are absolutely right that men and boys are in crisis, and we do need to tackle it head-on. But not by spreading more propaganda that men need more sex and then everything will be okay.

I think if you objectively look at the body of my work, you will find that I care about men and have always been respectful, even when pushing back on gender oppression.