Lady, we need to TALK! In the past 3 months, I have had some issues with this, too. EVEN IN THE SHOWER. I was shocked that I could barely get off with my shower head. That has never happened to me before.

I cannot figure out what it is. I’m not on medication. I have been wondering if it’s my age (I’m 43), but I keep reading that the clit never “ages” — our libido might be lower at certain times, but the clit doesn’t just stop working with age.

So…I’m flummoxed. Is this a passing phase? I’m fine during ovulation, of course. But the rest of the time, I’ve gone from 5 minutes to blast off to 20–30 minutes. WTF?

I’ll continue to do detective work. And maybe try this Lelo Tiani 2 that Average Don Juan mentioned. (He’s like the best sex ed teacher I ever had.)

Love your work, as always!