LOVE this! I wish more guys were like this. I wrote love poems for a boyfriend once and he said I was making him feel like a woman and asked me to stop. And I gave a boyfriend flowers once and he said I was emasculating him. I know not every guy feels that way, but that’s something that’s really important to me — to be able to have those gestures move in both directions. Maybe that’ll be my litmus test if I ever date again!