MeraBaid Kaur Thank you so much for this very thoughtful and non-judgmental comment. I truly appreciate it.

I understand what you are saying — it’s definitely a complicated issue and everyone has different feelings about it, I’m noticing. I think you are right on the money when you say we base our feelings about this on our situation. That’s absolutely true. Where we are in any given moment, and in what circumstances…that makes a HUGE difference. And yes, I think you’re right that it doesn’t necessarily have to do with security or maturity, but just how you feel. Heck, you could even feel differently on different days for no apparent reason.

Anyways…yes. Complicated. :) Thank you very much for sharing your feelings on this. I love the perspective.