Michaela Greksakova I am so sorry that you went through that. That’s terrible and unfair though not unsurprising. We still live in such a deeply sexist world. You should never have had to experience any shaming, whatsoever — as you said, men don’t get shamed.

Also, agreed on the weird rules about what constitutes sex so people can find an “out.” All that stuff counts!

Keep doing your thing. Screw anyone who judges you.