My darling friend, I just adore this and adore you.

And though I won't insert myself into your personal explorations around this topic and how you identify yourself and your role as a writer, I will 100% support you in saying that fuck yes, you can be a sex writer even if you hardly ever think about sex. If you are interested in it, if you want to talk about, if you want to educate...that's all that really matters.

I am so glad to see more women talking openly about their sex drive ups and downs, and how mental health and hormones have a huge impact on that. Bravo, as always. You are my hero. <3

(And congrats on finding yourself some tireless dick.)