My friend, no one knows your situation. No one knows what you went through. No one has the right to assume they know anything about you or your life. People will share opinions right and left, because that's what we all do. But only you know.
Those who know you and love you understand what a complex, nuanced, loving person you are. You're just...you know...HUMAN. Like the rest of us. We're all a mess. You just keep on ignoring those who spend their free time berating a stranger on the internet. You have better things to do. xoxo