Nicheing is SMART. My personality passionately resists that and it has always cost me.
What really struck me here was the part about your real life and not wanting to turn people away. That is real and it is so disappointing to me that that happens to women. Yeah, talking about other parts of life absolutely turns off some people and they'll be SO turned off that they won't ever come back and read you again. I've seen that happen so many times with my work.
It's so ironic because those people who only want women to exist in easy-to-label boxes are missing out on truly liberated women, on truly good sex, on LIFE.
Anyways...we need all of our voices to keep sharing the nuances of female sexuality. Thank you for being one of them!