Skip, I'm sorry - I feel like I am way more vulnerable about this topic than I realized and hearing a man say "It just is" was really hard for me. I should have waited to comment - I feel like my emotions are making it hard for me to see clearly here. You've always been kind to me. I just had a hard time with this and feeling like a man was forcing my art to be sexual when I specifically want it to be something more. I'm not even sure that's what you meant, but apparently, that's how I processed it. I'm sorry if I misunderstood.