Thank you for that perspective. I appreciate it. I feel like there’s this narrative that a slut is strong enough to take a chance on a slightly uncertain situation, or that she has no needs or boundaries whatsoever, and that if she finds herself regretting things later, it’s because she failed because she’s too uptight. I do keep reminding myself of that — I consented to a particular situation. And that’s not what was going on. And maybe (maybe?) I didn’t fail — maybe I’m just hurt and angry that I didn’t get to give proper consent in this area because I wasn’t given complete and honest information.