Thank you for your perspective. And just for the record, I agree that it is important to address men’s mental health — and also agree that this is men’s job, not women’s. But I am dismayed that women’s mental health within the institution of marriage has largely been ignored, even though we’ve been suffering for centuries. (Read the article I linked to on this if you want to hear my full thoughts on it.) That’s not to diminish men’s suffering, but just to point out that it’s time we give the same amount of attention to women’s mental health issues within relationships, too.