That’s lovely.

And overall, it’s none of my business what people think of as sex or not sex. But I feel like we’re moving into a direction in which it’s increasingly commonplace to remove blow jobs from the category of sexual activity which I think is worrisome for all the reasons I outlined here, but also, for adults…does that mean if you’re in a monogamous relationship, you can receive oral sex from other people and it doesn’t count? That’s fine if that’s what both people decide, but so often, we don’t realize we need to discuss what sex is to each person and how that fits into relationship agreements.

Just some things I’ve been thinking about. :)