There are some men who write with absolute authority about women (things like “What Women Like in Bed” and such) that cross a line that is unsettling for me. I also try to avoid writing about men like that.

But the way you have done it strikes a perfect balance. It’s more like you are writing from your own observations as a man and that’s lovely and very respectful.

You should definitely submit to Sexography — they are a very diverse publication. They just want quality articles that open up the dialogue about sex and sexuality.

Don’t get hung up on curation. Doesn’t happen every time and that doesn’t mean ANYTHING. There’s no hidden message there — could’ve been that your article slipped through the cracks or it might even get curated weeks from now (that’s happened to me). Just keep writing! :)