This is probably the most I’ve learned about sex all week. :)

I don’t even know where to begin. So much goodness. What a nice thing to know that men aren’t necessarily obsessed with blow jobs, as I’ve been conditioned to believe. (I really don’t care that much when the tables are turned, honestly. I mean, sure, it’s fun, but…)

My first experience with oral sex was “you must swallow” so that kinda colored everything that came after that. So much of it felt like an obligation. In my last relationship, I eventually got the point where I needed to talk through his expectations of me and feel like I had more control.

Yes, we should always make each other feel like fucking sex champions!

And yeah, WTF with this no kissing BS after? That drives me NUTS. Thank you for addressing that!!!

And thanks for teaching me a new word. Yes, I had to look up “snowballing” in Urban Dictionary. Learn something new every day…