Y.L. Wolfe
Nov 14, 2023

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This is such a compassionate response. Thank you. I think you are absolutely right. There is such deep conditioning for men to see us as objects, as prizes, which is why it feels so overwhelming to conquer. How do we overcome that conditioning? When I hear those men talk about their wives like that — saying the actual words that they agreed to be the breadwinners so they could have sex whenever they wanted — that’s when I really see this. They can type those words into a comment section and yet it doesn’t register, at all, within their own minds, what they are actually saying.

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Y.L. Wolfe
Y.L. Wolfe

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