This kind of stuff INFURIATES me. Any time a man uses porn as a barometer of what a woman is supposed to do in bed...oh HELL NO. And the whole "scream and moan" thing. HELL NO. I mean, sure, if that's your thing, but not because that's what women in porn do.

God, how do they not understand that porn isn't real?

And it discourages me that we're still in place where guys ask, at the end, "Did you come?" I wrote a whole article on that. It drives me CRAZY. Why is that not part of the dialogue during the act? How are they not noticing? Why is it a secondary goal?

Okay, sorry, I got all riled up reading this. But I'm so glad you having the experiences you deserve now. <3