This made me a little teary-eyed to read an account of healing after a breakup. I had a similar experience, minus the sugar daddies. (I should've thought of that! LOL.) But seriously, I'm so glad this experience healed you and I'm of the mind, as you know, that whatever people agree to do together isn't anyone else's business and sure as hell doesn't make anyone less of a strong woman. <3 On the contrary - going after what you want, without apology or explanation...now THAT'S a strong, feminist woman!