What a Pelvic Exam Taught Me About Falling in Love

Who knew that a speculum could become a tool of awakening?

Photo by Gustavo Fring

“Your blood pressure is a bit high, but I’m guessing that’s probably due to anxiety about being here.”

I glanced at the exam table where she had placed the gown and paper sheet and grimaced. “I’ve come to realize I’ll never outgrow my discomfort with a…