When people find out I don’t have kids, they often assume I chose this and can be extremely judgmental. In other words, I feel like a de facto childfree woman, rather than a childless woman, and as such, I’ve seen some of the BS propaganda and shaming childfree women have to endure. And I am not okay with it. I never want to speak for the childfree, but I will always speak in their defense! xoxo