Yep, same here. Those are all so big for me. When I was in middle school, “faggot” was THE INSULT. I had no idea what it meant and people kept yelling that at me, at each other, and one day, I yelled it to my sister at home when we were having a fight, and my mother ran in and I swear, I thought she was going to slap my face. She told me what it meant and I was mortified and never said it again. I still can’t believe how common it is to throw that word around among teens, though. It just kills me.