YEP! Yep. Yep. Absolutely. I try to remember that, but with men, I often give them chance after chance to do a rewrite. And it’s ALWAYS the same draft. I am barely at the beginning of that journey when it comes to men.

I’ve always observed that there are some women who are hyper vigilant about marriage and boundaries — and for some reason, they seem to blame women for transgressions, even if the man pursued it.

I don’t know if this played into my recent conflict with my sister — I have a feeling it did, just a little, because this was SO out of character for me. I think it shocked and maybe scared her. Made her feel like she didn’t know me anymore. Just my sense of it.

Anyways…thank you. ❤