Yes, exactly — on all counts. I think it’s totally sexist that we get this message that a woman’s body is complicated or that it’s hard to please a woman in bed or “figure out” her body. Please! It makes it easy to discount her pleasure and any effort to give her some and simultaneously oversimplifies men and their experience.

And yes, I am ALL ABOUT exploring the idea that sex can be just for the pleasure of a woman. I was taught it was all about pleasing men and I’m trying to unlearn that and rebalance the scales.