Yes, if you pay attention to women’s stories, you’re a pussy. That’s the toxic narrative, which is doubly misogynistic thanks to using words like “pussy” as an insult.

The irony is that we are all so alike. We are conditioned to believe that we’re two separate species. Women’s stories wouldn’t be different if we weren’t purposefully set apart and often set against one another by patriarchal mechanisms.

And it IS a long process. Don’t be discouraged! Keep going! We see you. We appreciate you. And in the end, we will ALL benefit from upending this system. More access to one another, more safe spaces for us to build relationships or engage in sexual encounters, more trust, more compassion. ❤