YES. We need more women talking about this and we need to indulge more, even for people who think their libido is low. (I’m convinced a lot of people who identify as low libido are really dealing with shame around their sexuality or in some cases are dealing with emotional issues that masturbation could possible help with — happy chemicals!) I’m so over people saying how essential it is for guys to jerk off every day, as if women shouldn’t or don’t need the same. If we changed the message around female sexuality, I think most of us would be masturbating as much as you and I are. ;) High five!